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“The Mom Circle: Finding My People at the End of the Cul-de-Sac”

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Where the scooters fly, the sidewalk chalk flows, and the moms become family.

When we moved into our cul-de-sac, I was mostly thinking about safety. Fewer cars zooming by, a quiet street for the kids to ride bikes, and a little more peace and quiet after the chaos of the day.

I wasn’t thinking about finding my people. But somehow, I did.


It Starts with a Wave… and a Goldfish Spill

It always begins small. A neighbor mom waves while wrangling a toddler and balancing groceries. You wave back while chasing a rogue scooter and silently cursing the Capri Sun that exploded in your car.

Then comes the moment you bond over something universal—meltdowns during bedtime, lost Amazon packages, or the neighborhood group text that spiraled over trash can placement. (You know the one.)

And before you know it, you’re sitting on someone’s driveway at 6 PM with a plastic wine tumbler, shouting “Car!” every two minutes as your kids dart into the street like it’s Frogger.


The Sacred Ritual of Driveway Wine and Sidewalk Chats

There is something magical about the cul-de-sac mom friendships. They’re casual but deep. Convenient but intentional. You don’t have to “schedule a playdate”—you just open your garage and the kids (and the chaos) follow.

We talk while we supervise scooter races and trampoline Gaga Ball. We vent about school emails and how we’re supposed to be feeding our kids vegetables. We loan each other eggs, birthday candles, and emotional support.

We share everything from sunblock to life advice.


We Are the Watchtower Moms

We text when someone’s kid forgets their backpack or runs home barefoot. We cheer each other on during the baby years and the big-kid transitions. We know who had a hard week and show up with coffee or Matua—or just the good charcuterie.

We are each other’s village. And the village lives in a circle of cracked pavement and scattered sidewalk chalk.

And in that circle, we’ve found something rare and beautiful: connection. Friendship. A shared understanding that none of us have it all together—and that’s exactly why we belong.

We cheer for the kids who get their first goals, homeruns, touchdowns, and drivers licenses like they’re our own. We rush to see who’s going to prom with who, how the dance recital went, and who left their crocs again.


The Cul-de-Sac is the Circle That Holds Us

The kids grow, the scooters and bikes get traded for car keys and Hondas, and our conversations shift from potty training to middle school drama. But the cul-de-sac? It stays the same. A safe, sacred space where we parent together, laugh together, and keep showing up for one another.

I didn’t know I’d find my people here. But I did.

And honestly? I’m never leaving.

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